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                                                                                                  October, 2005

 

Rector’s Message

 

Dear Friends,

 

I have a colleague who is wont to say, “I like it when children cry. It means someone will come and take them away.” Not a terribly cordial sentiment, but it makes a point. The presence of children in our midst can, at times, be a bit confusing...it can create interruptions to the order we might desire.

 

The matter is germane to our life here at Saint John’s. Over the last eighteen years, there has been a steady growth in the number of young people who are regularly in attendance in this Parish. For me, I assure you, it is an answered prayer. The work of Sunday School teachers and Youth Group leaders and numerous other individuals of good will has issued in a good thing. In the last five years, the Youth Group has gone to Honduras once and Appalachia twice to work to better the lot of human being who are far less fortunate than they. They have learned and grown from this and come to understand more deeply the nature of Christian servanthood and their own baptismal covenants. The Sunday School continues to burst at the seams and innumerable youngsters, supported by a wonderful group of teachers, are learning what it means to be a Christian…to come to know of a playground on which the big kid doesn’t always lord it over the smaller kids and where caring and concern for one another is everso important. These are lessons they will carry with them into the years ahead and which they won’t necessarily receive too many other places but in the Undercroft and at their family tables. This year, under the guidance of Bett Alter, head of the History Department and teacher of Ethics at Gunnery, a special effort to reach out to the 6th-8th/9th grade members of the Parish will be initiated. Two Sundays a month, this group will gather in the Parish House Library to discuss matters of concern to them in an atmosphere that seeks to provide a caring environment and a Christian context for such discussions. Growing up is not always so terribly easy, and, for this group in particular, it can be everso complex. We hope that Saint John’s can provide a place to make this journey easier and a means of increasing clarity rather than confusion.

 

As I said, these are good things. The world is a difficult place, and I rejoice in what is taking place here, for, through it, you and I have a chance to make life a little bit less difficult for the children entrusted to our care. I pray you rejoice with me and will join me in offering to these children the strength and direction a community of faith such as ours has the opportunity to offer.

 

Two prayers seem to me of special note in this regard. Both are found on page 829 of the Book of Common Prayer.

 

Almighty God, heavenly Father, you have blessed us with the joy and care of children: give us calm strength and patient wisdom as we bring them up, that we may teach them to love whatever is just and true and good, following the example of our Savior Jesus Christ.

 

God our Father, you see your children growing up in an unsteady and confusing world: Show them that your ways give more life than the ways of the world, and that following you is better than chasing after selfish goals. Help them to take failure, not as a measure of their worth, but as a chance for a new start. Give them strength to hold their faith in you, and keep alive their joy in your creation; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

 

Faithfully,

 

The Reverend Robert L. Ficks III

 

SAINT JOHN’S BAZAAR

This Year’s Bazaar will be held on Saturday, October 29th from 10AM-2PM.

The Preview Party will be Friday, October 28th from 6:30PM-8:30PM.

Please mark you calendars now to be part of this important event in the life of the Parish.

 

Laura Daly and Chris Boshears will again be in charge of this year’s planning of the Bazaar. Please take a moment to review what our needs are for this year. The sign up sheet will be in back of the Church every Sunday starting in September. Thanks to all who have already agreed to help us again this year. We still need lots of help and look forward to adding new volunteers to the list.

 

Not to be pushy, but we would like to know as soon as possible if you are willing to help out. This will allow us to organize the work in the most effective way. If you have any questions before you commit to helping, please call Laura (868-9526).

 

As was the case last year, the bidding for certain silent auction items including vacation homes donated for a weekend will be reserved for the Preview Party only. Invitations for the Preview Party will be mailed out in mid-September. If you are a parishioner, you are already on the mailing list. If you would like to be included on the mailing list, please call Laura Daly (868-9526).

 

BAZAAR SPECIAL NEEDS

 

There are some specific needs we would like to highlight:

 

Silent Auction

 

Please consider donating valuable furnishings, decorative arts, china, silver, etc. in good condition (with a minimum value of $25). Also, we ask that you consider donating a service or use of a second home or apartment for a weekend. Please accompany all donations with your name, description of the item and suggested value (the Silent Auction Committee will assign minimum bids). This will help us to keep track of donations for our records and also for your tax-deductions. If you have any questions regarding a possible donation, please call Ann Burton (868-2003) to inform her of your intentions so she can stay on top of the inventory list for this all-important aspect of the Bazaar.

 

Last year, we had great success with donated items that were not auctioned off but priced to buy. We will be doing this again this year. So, please bear this in mind when you are thinking of donating items for the Bazaar.

 

Donated items should be brought to the Parish House beginning October 8th.  Call the Parish House to arrange for pick-up if they are too large for you to handle by yourself.

 

Lastly, we need volunteers to man the Silent Auction tables for both Friday’s Preview Party and Saturday.


Preview Party

 

We need helpers to get this party going, both in the kitchen and to serve. We will need 3-4 bartenders. We will also need volunteers to stuff envelopes to get the invitations in the mail on time. This would need to be done mid-September.

 

Larder

 

Based on last year’s success, we need baked goods, soups and chutneys. Single serving items or small packages of brownies etc. were excellent impulse purchases last year.

Call Ann Hodgman (868-0583) if you will contribute goods to this booth.  We will need people to help Ann sell items at this booth on Friday and Saturday.

 

Winter Flowers

 

As in the past, we need lots of containers suitable for the forcing of bulbs. We encourage those wishing to help to bring the containers to the Parish House as soon as possible. This will give us ample time to get this ever-popular booth ready in time for the Bazaar. We will also need helpers to pot up the bulbs (date and time TBD).

 

We will also need one person on Friday and Saturday to oversee this booth.

 

Raffle

 

We need someone to oversee the selling of the tickets. Laura Daly will take care of the paperwork involved in running the raffle, but is desperate for someone to actually be in charge of getting tickets distributed and sold. Please call Laura (868-9526) if you are interested. Also, we need volunteers to sell the tickets around town and beyond. Finally, we will need helpers to man the Raffle booth during the Bazaar both Friday and Saturday.

 

Christmas Crafts

 

We really need individuals to help make holiday crafts for this booth. We need knitters and those who would like to decorate Christmas ornaments. This booth is quite successful and can become even more so with a few extra helping hands. Call Laura (868-9526) if you are interested in helping.

 

Box Lunch

 

Suzanne Shrady has graciously agreed to chair this part of the Bazaar activities. It would be great if someone could help Suzanne organize the box lunch. We also need volunteers to prepare and serve lunch.

 

Cheese

 

Jill Nicolson has once again agreed to be in charge of this booth. We also need someone to donate a scale in order to weigh the cheese and price in accordingly. We can also use volunteers to man the table for both Friday and Saturday.

 

Set up and Clean up Crews

We need volunteers to help set up the Bazaar a few days before the event, clean up after the Preview Party on Friday night and close down the Bazaar on Saturday afternoon.

 

We are looking forward to another grand Bazaar. We thank you all in advance for your time and effort in making the Bazaar the wonderful event that it always is.

 

Adult Forum ~ We are fortunate that the Reverend Rowan Greer has agreed again to lead the Autumn Adult Forum at Saint John’s. The Forum begins on Sundays at 9.00 AM in the Parish House Library and allows those who have attended the 8.00 AM service to be in this gathering as well as those who will be attending the 10.00 AM service. The Forum ends about five minutes of ten and coffee is available for those attending. This year’s Forum will be offered the weeks of September 19 – November 21. Father Greer’s topic this year will be “Poetry and Religious Truth.”  Father Greer notes,

 

A religion makes some ultimate claim on our belief.  It demands a commitment.  A literary experience, on the other hand, does not.  ... [Despite the difference between poetry and religion] one still must concede that religion and poetry have much in common. ... the relationship between religion and poetry is a polar relationship in something of the same sense in which we speak of the poles of an electric battery ... poles that mutually attract each other and thus generate a current of energy."

     Cleanth Brooks, "Religion and Literature" (1974)

 

 “This is only one way of describing the relationship of poetry to religion.  Perhaps we shall find others.  We shall spend ten weeks examining specific poems, and you will find a detailed schedule is available on Saint John’s website.  Nevertheless, that agenda is obviously highly selective.  Consequently, people are encouraged to submit their own favorites for our consideration.”

 

We cordially invite you to attend these meetings. It is not essential that you attend all of them but certainly are urged to come to as many as possible. You are assured that your time will be time very well spent. We are graced to have as fine a teacher as Father Greer in our midst.

 

Layreaders, Chalice Bearers, Acolytes and Ushers ~ Please be aware that any member of the Parish who is interested in becoming involved in any of these ministries should feel free to contact the Rector and let him know of that interest. You would be most welcomed and your gifts received with gratitude.

 

We have a special need this year for new Acolytes. A number of our more senior corps members have gone off to college. Any young person in fourth grade or above would be welcomed to become involved in this ministry in the life of Saint John’s. Please contact Father Ficks (868-2527) for additional details.

 

Rector Away ~  During the period of October 3 through October 8, the Rector will be in Michigan.  In his absence, emergency pastoral call will be taken by the Revd. Roger White, Rector of Saint Andrew’s Parish in Kent, 927-3486.  The Wednesday Eucharist on October 5 will be celebrated by the Revd. Susan McCone.

 

Family Sunday ~  The first Family Sunday (that one Sunday each month when the young people of the Parish join us in the Church for the entire service) will take place on Sunday the 2nd of October at the 10.00 am service.

 

Evensong ~  Evensong will be sung on Sunday, October 2nd at 5.00pm for the Commemoration of the Feast of Saint Michael and All Angels.

 

Saint Francis Day - Blessing of the Animals ~ On October 16 at 1.00pm, the opportunity to participate in the traditional blessing of the animals will be offered on the steps of Saint John’s. All manner of creatures are welcome and the only caveat is that those that might need it be leashed or caged for their own good…and lest chaos ensue. Refreshments will be available for all attending.

 

Christian Education Update ~  The following provides you with information regarding Saint John’s Christian Education and Youth Group Programs for the coming year.

 

Nursery - This program, for the youngest of our members, is offered in the Undercroft every Sunday from 9.00am through the end of Sunday School (approximately 11.15am). Erin Koslosky, a senior at Shepaug High School, who comes to us with the highest personal recommendations and considerable background caring for small children, will be present in the Undercroft each Sunday beginning this week (9/18). We have structured her time here to begin at 9.00am in order that parents with children can have the opportunity to participate in the Choir or the Adult Forum. During Sunday School, Erin will care for the very smallest of our members, but from 9.00 to 10.00am, she will be present to care for any children needing care while their parents are involved in these other activities. During Sunday School time, it is sometimes necessary that, if a very small child becomes really upset with being away from his or her parents or needs special care, the parent(s) be asked to come downstairs for a time to help with the child’s needs.

 

Sunday School - Sunday School begins next week (9/25) at 10.00am in the Undercroft. For young persons up through fifth grade, this “one room schoolhouse” model provides a nurturing and loving environment in which children learn the lessons of the faith as well as care and concern for one another from 10.00 to 11.00 each Sunday. Sunday School lessons follow those being used each Sunday in the regular liturgy in the Church. At approximately 11.00am, parents come downstairs from the Church to bring their youngsters back up with them to share in Communion (or, if they are not ready for that, to receive a blessing [Parents desiring to have their children start to receive Communion should be in touch with the Rector]). One Sunday a month (ie, Family Sunday), all youngsters (except the very smallest…who can stay with Erin) come to the entire service with their parents where they take an active role in many aspects of the liturgy (during which the Saint John’s Choristers sing in company with members of the Senior Choir). This year’s first Family Sunday is October 2nd. For parents interested in learning a bit about the subject matter which is covered on a Sunday by Sunday basis in the Sunday School, you can go to the website (www.stjohnswashington.org); click Christian Education; scroll down a bit; and click the link entitled “Weekly Sunday School Lessons”. This will allow parents to discuss with their child(ren) what went on in Sunday School in a more informed manner.The first third of this “school year” will be taught by Jeanne Reid, Dixie Deluca, and Susan Markert.

 

Middle Schoolers - Young persons in the 6th through 8th or 9th grade (this decision rests with the young person and his or her parents) gather two Sundays a month at 10.00am in the Parish House Library to spend time discussing matters that affect their lives at this particular time in their development. Particular attention is given to deepening understanding of the Christian journey and creating a comfortable environment to discuss matter concerning ethical decisions and the increasingly complex situations that confront these young people as the approach adulthood. The first two meetings of this group will be on October 9th and 16th in the Parish House Library at 10.00am. This group is led by Bett Alter, the head of the History Department and teacher of Ethics at The Gunnery School. Bett has many years of experience in this particular area of work with young men and women. She has lived and worked in Maine, India, Mauritania, Senegal, West Virginia, and New York. Bett holds a strong belief in the need for holistic education. Bett is a newly appointed member of the Council on Spiritual and Ethical Education's National Panel on Ethics Education. The Council is at the forefront in developing materials for spiritual and ethical education. It was formerly known as the Council on Religion in Independent Schools. It has developed a considerable corpus of material that strives to bring young persons to more profound levels of compassion and deeper moral thinking. She and her husband, John (who is an English instructor at the Gunnery), have three children and live on Wyckham Road.

 

Youth Group - Young persons from 6th through 12th grade are all invited to participate in the work and life of the Youth Group. Under the guidance of Caroline Sorrel, David and Camille Gillespie, Julia Brennan, and Steve McCollian, this group undertakes all sorts of service projects (in recent years having traveled to Honduras once and Appalachia twice to help those in need as well as tending to leaf raking, etc at various Parishioner’s homes) as well as gathering simply to have some fun (ie, Christmas caroling, hosting dances, etc.). The first meeting of the Youth group is September 25th at 10.00am in the Parish House Library. Pictures and narrative of the Youth Group’s most recent mission trip (during August of this year) are available on the website (www.stjohnswashington.org) at the bottom of the homepage on the link entitled “Letters from McDowell County - 2005”.

 

Saint John’s offers these opportunities with great hopes that you and your children and/or grandchildren will become part of them. Enclosed with this mailing is the statement of philosophy for the Christian Education Program. We hope you will find it informative and edifying.

 

Loaves and Fishes is in Need ~ For many years, Saint John’s has supplied food and food servers once a month at Loaves and Fishes Soup Kitchen in New Milford. Over those years, a considerable number of dedicated members of the Parish have overseen this work. Most recently, David Poole has held this post.  In order for us to continue to undertake this ministry to those in need practically at our doorstep, it would be a positive thing if a few additional members of the Parish stepped forward to offer time in this ministry. The commitment seems rather manageable…one Friday afternoon a month for about two and one-half hours transporting casseroles prepared by parishioners and stored in the Parish House refrigerator to the Richmond Center on Main Street in New Milford, warming them up, and helping serve them to those who visit the Center for a daily hot meal. Obviously, if two or three volunteers step forward, this commitment becomes quite modest and might be only required of each volunteer three or four times a year. This is a worthwhile ministry of this Parish to those in need.  If you are willing to explore the possibility of sharing in this effort with David, please call the Rector (868.2527).

 

Daylight Savings Time ~  A reminder to set your clocks back an hour before going to bed on Saturday , October 29th.

 

 

Youth Group News ~  The Youth Group met on Sunday, September 25th and prepared a wonderful Coffee Hour for the entire Parish. The members present spent a good bit of time discussing activities for the coming year. The next activity will be going on a Haunted Hay Ride in Woodbury near Holloween. Of special note, is the plan to have a farewell and thank-you reception for Francis Chamberlain as she completes almost ten years as leader of the Youth Group on November 6th…the date the Group will present a review of it trip this last Summer to Appalachia.

 

Vestry News ~  At its regularly scheduled meeting of Sunday, September 18, 2005 the following received attention: 

·       Minutes of the August 21st meeting were accepted as read.

·       Mr Fowlkes present a review of the work of the Stewardship and Finance Committee in preparation for the Stewardship Campaign of 2006.

·       Mr Fowlkes presented the Treasurer’s Report for August. It was accepted as presented.

·       The Rector reminded the Vestry of Saint John’s commitment to hosting the Deanery Lessons and Carols service on December 4th at 5.00pm.

·       Ms Schinke submitted the final draft of the revised Parish By-Laws. They will be submitted to the Parish for approval at the Annual Meeting in January.

·       The new Parish Financial Guidelines, as prepared by Mr Fowlkes, were approved and will go into effect immediately. Any Parishioner interested in reading these guideline is welcome to ask for a copy from the Office.

 

The next meeting of the Vestry will be October 16, 2005.

 

Music Notes ~  What a difference a year makes!  Last September I had just arrived in Washington and was faced with the task of trying to get the kaleidoscopic music program at St. John’ s up and running for the first time - well, the first time for me at any rate.  I was in a position not unlike that of a person trying to cook a meal in somebody else’s kitchen when the owner is away.  Such a person might well know how to cook, yet still finds himself flummoxed because he doesn’t know where utensils and ingredients are kept, or how to operate unfamiliar appliances.  The result?  He wastes a great of time either asking himself amusing but pointless questions like “If I were a pepper mill where would I be hiding?” or reading convoluted instruction booklets like “How To Make The Most Of Your New Solar-Powered Cheese Grater!” Neither of which pursuit is of much help in getting a meal on the table efficiently.  No one will be more aware of the aptness of this simile than our Rector.  I can’ t begin to guess how many hundreds of times last fall I must have enquired piteously, “Bob, can you PLEASE tell me in which file of which folder on which computer I might possibly find whatsis?”

 

This September has been very different.  Having completed a full cycle working within the various departments of the music program, and having unlocked the secrets of most of the behind-the-scenes mechanics, I’ve managed to make the transition from the calm of summer to the “full tilt' mode of autumn with a minimum of complication.  The Choir, Chorale, and Choristers are all back in action with several new members swelling the ranks of capable and dedicated musicians in each of these groups.  This is good news indeed, since without them nothing can happen.  

 

Some events of note:  The first Evensong of the 2005-2006 season will take place on Sunday, the 2nd of October, in commemoration of the feast of St. Michael and All Angels.  For this beautiful service the choir will be augmented by several visiting singers.  We hope as many of you as possible will be able to attend. 

 

The St. John’s Chorale has posted the 9th and the 11th of December as the dates for its annual Christmas Candlelight Concerts.  At these concerts the Chorale will be performing two masterful settings of the Te Deum by Benjamin Britten, the rarely heard Ave Maris Stella by Franz Liszt, the absolutely delightful Messe de Minuit pour Nöel by Marc Antoine Charpentier, several traditional English carols, and works by Victoria and contemporary composer Thomas Bold.  

 

I would also like to point out that the first concert of this season’s St. John’ s Concert Series will be taking place on Sunday, the 9th of October, at 4 PM.  This concert will feature English tenor, Simon Wall, a superb young artist who has performed extensively in Europe and the USA.  I happen to be particularly well aware of the details of Mr. Wall’s program for St. John’s, as I will be accompanying him.  He will be offering a most beautiful and unusual selection of music, including works by Poulenc, Howells, Britten, and Quilter, as well as a set of irresistible British Folk Song settings.

 

It’ s good to be back working with the fine singers of St. John’ s after their summer hiatus, and I look forward to lots of fine music making during the coming year.  

 

Now if only someone would be good enough to tell me, in a way I can remember, just how to send a fax!   But that’s another story.

 

Sincerely,

Richard Busch

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