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February 2008

 

From the Interim Rector

 

LENT 2008

 

    The Liturgical Season of Lent comprises the 40 weekdays (Sundays remain “little Easters” throughout!) from Ash Wednesday through Holy Saturday. Clearly, the number 40 is not accidental. It mimics the 40 days and nights spent by Jesus in the wilderness (immediately after his Baptism,   according to the Gospels) and the 40 years the Israelites wandered in the wilderness under Moses’ guidance in search of the promised land. Then there were the 400 years of the Hebrew exile in Babylon!  In short, Lent is every believer’s “faith story” in microcosm, from the humble dust of our creation (“earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust”) to the glorious sacrificial love for us shown by God in Christ, the crucified-resurrected One. Simply put, Lent is a tithe - roughly speaking 10% - of the year; an opportunity to offer up our very best!

     Entering the Lenten wilderness is risky and invites us to allow our vulnerability to surface from beneath the well wrought defenses we’ve cultivated to cope with life.  Signs and symbols of that vulnerability are present from day one - ashes imposed to remind us of our fallen, mortal human nature - always a step away from death; yet at the same time, dying daily to Sin (separation from God) which, in turn, brings us closer to intimacy with God.  As with the ashes, so with the discipline of fasting - reminding us that we do not live by “bread” alone, but by the Logos (the embodied Word of God). By fasting we can “slow down”   on one form of sustenance (food being but one of many) in order to “go faster” with a more perfect One!

     While the church provides for only two Fast days (Ash Wednesday & Good Friday) on which we are  meant to take no food except water (pregnant women and those on medications excepted!), Lent invites us to the consideration of abstinence in every aspect of our lives, not to lose weight (although that might be a fringe benefit) or to save money (though when we do, giving it to a worthy cause is very salutary).  The whole point is to go faster with God, by slowing down with self (as musicians know, lento means slow down) - take Sabbath, a weekly day off, not only from your “day job” but from all kinds of busy work that may distract you  from “the peace of God which passeth all understanding” - or better yet, make a retreat in addition to taking Sabbath. Any good commander in the field knows that “retreat is not defeat” when taken to regroup and recollect one’s deeper source of energy and strength.

     All of this is best summarized by the paradoxical declarations of the Apostle Paul, when he writes: “After beseeching God not less than three times to take this thorn from my flesh, he told me ‘My Grace is all you need, for My strength increases by your weakness.’  It was a case of Christ’s strength moving in on my weakness; so the weaker I get, the stronger I become.” (2nd Corinthians 12:8-10, paraphrased).  Paul would never have made this statement of faith had he not personally known the power of Jesus kenosis (self-emptying), such that he encourages us to have the same attitude as Jesus, who “though in the form of God, did not count equality with God something to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant…”. (Philippians 2:5ff.)                 

     Lent is a season for each of us to personally re-connect with the power of Christ in our lives, to reflect upon the “crucified and resurrected” dimensions of our own lives, and to seek refreshment in the realization that although “we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God,” yet, “even so in Christ, we have all been made alive!” Lent, from Saxon and Middle-English roots, means “lengthening” (days of) “spring” when we see the creation coming to life out of death’s winter grip! May it be so in your life and that of St. John’s. Do not hesitate to call upon me if I can be helpful on any leg of your Lenten journey.                                                                    

Faithfully, 

Michael+

On Stewardship

 

“[A] woman came to Him with an alabaster vial of very costly perfume, and she poured it upon His head . . . But the disciples were indignant when they saw this and said, ‘Why this waste?  For this perfume might have been sold for a high price and the money given to the poor.’  But Jesus . . . said to them, ‘Why do you bother the woman?  For she has done a good deed to Me.  For the poor you have with you always; but you do not always have Me.’”

    – Matthew 26:7-11

 

I understand the disciples’ reaction to Mary of Bethany’s stewardship of her expensive oil.  There is so much need in the world.  How can we not give all we can directly to relief of suffering?  Jesus’ response reminds us of important points.

 

“Why do you bother the woman?”  First, He advises us not to criticize the stewardship of others.  For she has done a good deed to Me.”  Second, He reminds us that we are called to offer our first and best to God.  For the poor you have with you always.”  Third He observes that human suffering will always be with us.  A problem of that magnitude is too much for us to solve; divine intervention will be necessary.  ”But you do not always have Me.”  Fourth, Jesus says that the disciples will not always have Him, in the flesh, to talk to, to share with.  So for those who were with Jesus, it was not wrong for them to express their love for Him with gifts. 

Jesus said His earthly life would come to an end.  We do not have Jesus with us as the disciples did.  We have His church, our church, St. John’s.  Will we do our part to keep His church with us?  The endeavor will take our care, participation and money.  And in the magical way of God, we are the ultimate beneficiaries of these gifts.  Our gifts give us a church home where we find fellowship, joyful worship, the peace of prayer, music to delight the soul, and the space to focus our learning on God.

 

So far, 94 individuals and families have pledged $202,774 in support of the operation and programs of our church.  In order to meet our 2008 budget we need $54,926 more in pledges.  In order to restore the cuts to the outreach budget we made last year we will need more.  As the search committee interviews candidates who ask about our stewardship, we hope to tell the story of our growth as stewards and of parishioner’s enthusiastic financial support.  Prayerfully consider the God given gifts in your life and respond with thanksgiving! 

 

Mary of Bethany was extravagant in her gift to our Lord.  Given to Jesus, her perfumed oil had far greater impact then its market value.  Just as Jesus predicted, she is still remembered for her gift.  How much has she inspired?

 

Mary Schinke

Co-Chair, Stewardship Committee

 

Lent begins early this year. . .

 

In For the Time Being. W.H. Auden wrote, “The Christmas Feast is already a fading memory. And already the mind begins to be vaguely aware of an unpleasant whiff of apprehension at the thought of Lent and Good Friday which cannot, after all, now be very far off.  But, for the time    being, here we all are…”.  On the other hand, Lent need not bring “an unpleasant whiff of apprehension” but rather, opportunities for spiritual refreshment and renewal.

 

Consider these for Lent here at St. John’s:

 

· Adult Forums: Lenten Themes  Sundays, 9-9:45am in the Library –

Come join in lively conversations and explorations of the spiritual life, based upon the Lenten Sunday Gospels! 

 

Feb. 10th – Wilderness (Matt. 4:1-11) Feb. 17th – Rebirth (John 3:1-17)

Feb. 24th – Transparency (John 4)  Mar. 2nd – Refreshment (John 9)

Mar. 9th – Reconciliation and Renewal (John 11) 

 

· Sunday, Feb.24th, 5pm - Choral Evensong for the 3rd Sunday in Lent

 

· A Lenten Mini-Retreat: Friday, Feb.29th, 7:30pm – 9pm Lenten Vespers - Taize chant & meditation; Saturday, March 1st, 9:30am–2:30pm – Quiet Day meditations by Fr. Tessman:

“Spiritual maturity in an age of juvenilia & juvenescence!”

 

· Sunday, March 16th, 5pm – Choral Evensong for Passion Sunday

 

 . . . and Lent is a time for fellowship

 

· On Sunday, March 2nd following the 10am Eucharist the congregation is invited to luncheon in the Parish House, to hear from parish leader-ship in follow-up to the Annual Meeting, and a report on the Search process and parish-wide survey completed last month.  Bring your questions and enjoy another occasion of fellowship and discussion!

 

Rest eternal grant unto her, O Lord,

and let light perpetual shine upon her. 

May her soul and the souls of all the faithful departed

rest in peace.

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Saint John’s Parish gives thanks to Almighty God for the life of

Sarah H. McLean

who died peacefully, in the Hope of the Resurrection, and in her one-hundredth year,

during the night of January 30-31 in her home in New Preston.

A Memorial Service and the Holy Eucharist will be Celebrated

on Saturday, February 16th, at 11 o’clock.

A reception will follow in the Parish House.

 

Interim Rector’s Availability

 

Office 860-868-2527 + Rectory 860-868-7309 + Cell 401-639-8797

 

Email <mandctessman@aol.com>

 

Most weeks, Fr. Tessman is in residence at the Rectory from Wednesday Noon through Sunday.  His usual Office Hours are Wednesday afternoon following the Mid-day Eucharist, Thursday morning, and for most of the day on Friday and Saturday, by appointment.  Michael is available for pastoral conversation and/or spiritual direction by appointment, or in emergencies, by phoning the Rectory, Parish Office or his Cell phone (with a confidential answering system). Please leave a voice-message if you do not reach him directly!  Because of HIPPA laws, the Parish Office cannot know of a hospitalization unless informed directly by a family member or friend. Michael wants to bring the Prayers and Sacraments of the church to hospital and nursing homes and can only do so with accurate information. 

 

 

Make a Difference in Someone’s Life

 

Would you be willing to spend 1-1/2 hours a week to help students achieve their dreams of reading, writing and speaking English?  If you are patient, friendly and reliable, we need you.  Literacy Volunteers on the Green offers a Tutor Training Program to prepare you to work effectively with our students.

Tuesday, March 25, Wednesday, March 26, & Thursday, March 27, 6 to 9pm

at St. John’s Episcopal Church Parish Hall, 7 Whittlesey Avenue, New Milford

 

No prior teaching experience or knowledge of a foreign language is required to become a tutor, just a willingness and desire to help others improve their English skills.  Call Literacy Volunteers on the Green at 860-355-0830.